Everyone gets the urge to cough now and then. Worrying about disturbing your fellow listeners is a laudable impulse, but don't let it ruin your enjoyment of the concert. There's a funny thing about coughing—the less worried you are about it, the less likely you are to feel the urge! So chances are you'll feel less need to cough if you're prepared:

1. Be sure to visit the water fountain in the lobby before the concert, and at intermission.
2. If you have a cold, take some cough medicine in advance and bring wax paper-wrapped—or unwrapped—lozenges with you. Have a few out and ready when the music begins.
3. Allow yourself to become involved in listening to the music and in watching the performers.

The more you are absorbed in what's going on, the less likely you are to cough.

Still, if you absolutely can't restrain yourself, try to wait for the end of a movement. Or "bury" your cough in a loud passage of music.

If this is impossible, and you feel a coughing fit coming on, it's perfectly acceptable to quietly exit the concert hall. Don't be embarrassed—your fellow listeners will probably appreciate your concern for their listening experience.